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Lquilter: geekdom
2008-04-24T18:21:48Z
<p>geekdom</p>
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Lquilter: more
2008-04-24T18:19:59Z
<p>more</p>
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2008-04-24T18:17:16Z
<p>cat</p>
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2008-04-24T18:16:37Z
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<p><b>New page</b></p><div>'''Nice Guy''' sometimes "Nice Guy" (in quotes) or "Nice Guy (TM)" (not in quotes but with a TM tag) refers to a posture that some men assume to explain why they are not getting a girlfriend / getting laid. <br />
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The riff goes: "I'm not getting laid, but I'm a Nice Guy, so it can't be that; it must be that Women don't like Nice Guys."<br />
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For more on Nice Guys:<br />
*[http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/ng.shtml "Nice Guys"=BLEAH!], ''[[Heartless Bitches International]]'' (last visited 2008/4/24)<br />
For Nice Guys and related concepts in SF:<br />
*[http://blogs.feministsf.net/?p=63 The Guy I Don't Like], Angry Black Women @ FSF blog (2006/9/25)<br />
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