Please Touch/Don't Touch (WisCon 31 panel)

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25 Please Touch/Don't Touch

Feminism, Sex, and Gender•Assembly• Friday, 8:45-10:00 p.m.

One of the many qualities which sets WisCon apart from most other SF conventions is the perception that, for one weekend a year, the Concourse is a safe and inclusive space for SF fans of all genders, orientations, identities, races, and religions. Many people have commented that this extra level of comfort seems to create a very "touchy-feely" environment, with a lot more casual physical contact between old friends and new acquaintance, and a very different, (more open?) environment for flirting and hook-ups. But not everyone is quite so comfortable with such a relaxed atmosphere... Where do you draw the lines between casual and significant, affection and flirting, too much and not enough? How do the conditions change from situation to situation? And how do you tell someone to "back off"... or deal gracefully when someone else lets you know that you've crossed a line?

M: Debbie Notkin, Jed E. Hartman, Liz Henry, Mary Kay Kare, Karen Swanberg